One possibility calls to the future of further disagreement; while the other possibility calls to surrendering to the perfect common place of spiritual agreement, or “the truth of love.”  Now, the later part of that sentence sounds really good – but what does it actually mean?
 

As I now find myself in a new and quite uncomfortable stage in my marriage, because of “disagreement,” I am learning well, that whatever I individually perceive; is not perceived the exact same way by another.  In this case, my wife.  Perceptions are very unique and on an individual basis.
 

People often try to present their perspective as being the one and only truth.  But in reality, truth, in this respect is totally subjective and calls to too many intrinsic factors to try to single out and define.
 

It seems that the only real way to allow that which “Life” requires; is through an open stance of my capacities whereby I am continually allowing perspectives of another to also be validated.
 

Life is not looking for people that need to be “Right!”  The true right or righteousness is carried through the tone, attitude and demeanor of the “Truth of Love.”  Agreement in Spirit allows the details of life to work itself out.  This can require a whole lot of patience.  But the type of patience is not in trying to wait for a certain outcome to match one’s expectations.  It’s the patience of allowing whatever needs to work – to work itself out.  Sometimes I, or we, may actually know what the outcome may be – but more often, it is a discovery process.
 

We can all learn how to lovingly validate aspects of each other’s perspectives of truth, through the process of having patience, empathy and understanding.  The truth of love lives well through one’s Identification in Spirit, through each moment of the validation process.