The word divorce, with many, has almost an immediate negative connotation. Separation, or departure, in relationship is usually what comes to mind first. But there can also be other meanings associated with the word divorce.
As far as one’s relationship is concerned with anything in form, one can be divorced from it. In this broader sense, it can actually be helpful to be divorced from experiencing a responsive relationship to form itself.
Some of the healthiest meditations foster guided pathways that relinquish one’s attachment to form. In this process of relinquishing attachment, there is often, initially, a healthy substitution that assists the conscious effort to release into a state of Being that boarders an unconscious state of mind. One could label this transition from a “Focused” point; to achieving an “Open focused” point.
One of many useful spiritually based disciplines that come’s to mind; which can be helpful in assisting the transition from focus to open focus, can be found through some forms of the martial arts. The late Bruce Lee was a master of this thinking and developed methodology to achieve it.
In the book written by Bruce Lee entitled, “Tao of Jeet Kune Do,” there is a page that names, very accurately, the experience of achieving, what I referred to as an “Open focus.” Grandmaster Lee names this achievement as “Repose in the nothing.” Here are the steps under the heading, “The Path To Truth” as I quote Grandmaster Bruce Lee:
The Path To Truth (Bruce Lee)
1. Seeking after truth
2. Awareness of truth (and its existence)
3. Perception of truth (its substance and direction - like the perception of movement)
4. Understanding of truth (A first-rate philosopher practices it to understand it - TAO. Not to be fragmented, but to see its totality - Krishnamurti)
5. Experiencing of truth
6. Mastering of truth
7. Forgetting truth
8. Forgetting the carrier of truth
9. Return to the primal source where truth has its roots
10. Repose in the nothing
One could spend a lifetime trying to perfect this extraordinary possibility. There were other great thinkers, also, such Lloyd Arthur Meeker (pen name Uranda) that taught the relevance or value of not defining or naming anything; hence, the perfect state of Attunement with Source. Uranda asserted that you cannot be in the present moment while describing the past or defining anything. This, too, is of the same thinking as Bruce Lee.
It may be that we become afraid of loosing something of value while trying to regurgitate the essence of it by referring to it, and so many things, by name and definition. One can get so wrapped up in the jargon aspect, that it looses the original essence. In this sense, “Repose in the nothing” seems to hold intrinsic value!
The understanding of essences, through thoughts and feelings, holds greatness that our communication must relearn how to creatively express. Evolution surely dictates that yesterday cannot hold on to now, or to our tomorrows. Our forecasts of tomorrow also don’t offer any justice for the now! We set ourselves up with statements like, “History always repeats itself.” It is certainly a matter of perspective. But it might be more accurate to say that patterns tend to repeat themselves. Patterns call to an organic relationship and science of the “Patterns of Being” (Uranda), “Cause and effect” (Edgar Cayce), and the laws of physics. It is also said that the only constant in life is change…
It is certainly time for us to live in a state of non-preoccupation. It is also time to let the completeness of invisible clarity to come into form, moment by moment. As this occurs, perhaps, we can realize the value of appreciating it without having to give it a name. One day, after we remember, or relearn from Source, the language of true names, we can respect the proper (or creative) usage of articulation!